The Bhagvad Gita says, instead of viewing our life being in the good days or being in the bad days, we must try to look at it like the seasons of the year. Every year we have Summer followed by Autumn, then Winter, then Spring and then Summer again.
If we could relate this to our lives, we could notice that in our life too, there are seasons.
The Summer season when we are living the dream, achieving goals we want to achieve and basically everything goes about without much glitch because we are so confident and sure about it.
And just as seasons shift, the Summer phase gets over too someday. We find ourselves on the brink of change. Some people embrace change whole heartedly. But if you are like me, you may be wary and resistant to change.
And then Autumn follows. This is where I am stuck right now. I know I need to make peace with my circumstances and enjoy the little light left before it fades, but I am stuck not knowing where to begin and how to proceed. I have no plan. Though I wish I could change things, I also find myself unable to bring about the change.
From Autumn, we move into Winter. This is the season when things become very difficult to handle and you feel cold and miserable and afraid of taking all the decisions that you need to take to accept the new chapter in your life.
And then comes Spring, when you are finally tentatively stepping outside, trying, and learning new stuff, taking decisions, taking life one step at a time.
And then we are back in Summer, living our best life!! But it’s also important here to not repeat the mistakes of the previous seasons and to prepare for new changes more gracefully!! So that next time when Winter comes, we don’t feel shut and bolted but cozy and relaxed and looking ahead to new a Spring!!