About Trust 

Trust is a fragile thing. Almost like a crystal glass. U have to handle it with utmost care bcoz if it slips and breaks, the damage hurts physically.

Be utmost sure whom to trust they say. But I trust easily, almost blindly. I trust the person I met two minutes ago, bcoz I think c’mon what reason would that person have to harm me?

Unfortunately I believe in giving too many second chances, I never seem to learn from those particular past mistakes. I feel guilty when I wrong someone and I will then try to make up to them in whatever way I can. But haan, that’s not the vice versa case.

Promises to me are very important. I build my trust with it. But a promise is become as light a word as sorry these days. People dont mean it , they just say it.

As a kid I would always look forward to the things that my parents promised me. But then they used to just say it to appease me. They never meant to do anything. When I pointed out why they built a false expectation in me, the answer was, ” it’s not a big deal, why are u still grudging over it? ”

But it was important to me. It’s always important to me that you do what you say you will do.

But I still continue to trust and hope like a fool. Silly me!!

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​Day 18 Topic 18: Success

 Shouldn’t success be defined by us? 

We should decide what we want for ourselves and if we achieve that,  then yes, it was a success, we were successful. 

Instead people are the ones who set the benchmarks for us. It’s like, if we achieve so n so target only then are we successful in life.  

And no matter how successful we get, we will always be called not, bcoz of that one thing that we did not achieve. 

And why is success always defined by parameters such as ‘a job paying bomb salary’ or ‘living in a grand bungalow’ or ‘marrying a rich person’? 

Doesn’t happiness count as a success parameter? Like say,’ I always wanted to be in this profession, so yes I’m happy’, or ‘I’m happy bcoz I’m marrying the person I love’ or ‘I’m happy bcoz I’m finally buying my own house or car – irrespective of its size’. Aren’t these stories of accomplishment? 

Why do we always have to compare ourselves with others and emerge successfully only by winning over them? 

Day 15 Topic 15: Cute little things

During the day, I come across some things which to manage to brighten my day up in their own way. 
@SomeoneCanDraw:- Love ur awesome art! Arial and Bubbles are my fav ☺️

@missshubhangi:- Those tiny figurines are so cute😊

My minion Atharv,  and my sister:- Love u both, Everytime I see a minion or Elsa I remember u both. Miss ull a lot 😘

And @TheFitGoan :- The first thing that catches my eye in the morning and the last thing I look at before sleeping – the dream catcher 😍😍 Thanks for giving me one! 

So thankq u all for making my day a little more pleasant 😊